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I made a post under my Sexuality filter a few minutes ago about an article sent by an old friend that pissed me off. I just went back and re-read it, and keep seeing more to get angry about.

This bit for example:

Men have it within their power to stop contaminating the future-wife pool.

Because of course all women really want to do is be Good Wives, and they certainly would never willingly choose to do anything on their own -- like have premarital sex -- to "contaminate" themselves and render themselves less fit to be Good Wives, now would they???


Gack!

(Note: if men -- or women -- want to refrain from pre-marital sex on moral grounds, more power to them. What I object to is this author's placing the entire responsibility for women's choices on men, and making it seem like a woman's primary purpose is becoming a wife.)

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Date: 2008-08-30 05:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unicorndelamer.livejournal.com
Hopefully this wasn't one of the friends who just visited last weekend? Either way, I'll keep my fingers crossed that they're able to receive your criticism with an open mind and won't just brush it off.

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Date: 2008-08-30 06:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] qos.livejournal.com
No, it definitely wasn't one of the friends who visited last week!

I have no idea how he'll respond. I'm not sure if the fact that he hasn't written a reply means that he's thoroughly chastened or morally appalled.
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