Still Here
May. 8th, 2005 08:33 pmI always end up feeling remiss when I don't post any updates of substance for a week or more, but most of what has been going on in my life has been either the same routine or changes and transitions of such depth and complexity that it's very hard to write about them in the time that I have to be alone and think.
So, the Good News: Miss V and I have been getting along pretty well. We communicate primarily via email (which seems to short-circuit my tendency to be rubbed the wrong way by her voice), and I am being ultra-careful to not overreact to what could be taken as criticism.
Quarterly bonus checks were issued last week. Mine was very nice.
My daughter and I are doing some serious work on the house. Today we got a friend with a pick-up truck and a tool set to tear apart and haul away an old recliner that has been doing nothing but acting as a clothes rack (and a poor one at that) in the middle of our bedroom, and I completely cleared off two shelves of old clothes and seldom-used bedding which was sorted through for washing, garage sale, or garbage. I do feel that my sudden drive to gain control over and harmonize my home is a manifestation of what's going on in my spiritual life.
Powerful stuff continues to happen with my shamanic studies -- but it's still experiences I don't feel entirely comfortable writing about even on a Friends-only setting. What I'm experiencing would strain my own credulity if my best friend was talking about it. But I can feel changes occuring inside me, and in the healing of old relationships, and in increased mental-emotional health, and greater richness of my spiritual devotions. I almost wrote "I am becoming the woman I always wanted to be" -- but it's more like I'm uncovering that woman within myself. I'm been heartened that so far none of my offline friends have reacted with scepticism or negative judgement, but I haven't yet dared speak of this to my parents.
I meet twice a month with Kim, my shamanic teacher, and once a month with Tom, my spiritual director, and it makes for an intense and dynamic path. Between the two of them, almost the full range of my spirituality is nurtured and challenged to deeper growth.
So, the Good News: Miss V and I have been getting along pretty well. We communicate primarily via email (which seems to short-circuit my tendency to be rubbed the wrong way by her voice), and I am being ultra-careful to not overreact to what could be taken as criticism.
Quarterly bonus checks were issued last week. Mine was very nice.
My daughter and I are doing some serious work on the house. Today we got a friend with a pick-up truck and a tool set to tear apart and haul away an old recliner that has been doing nothing but acting as a clothes rack (and a poor one at that) in the middle of our bedroom, and I completely cleared off two shelves of old clothes and seldom-used bedding which was sorted through for washing, garage sale, or garbage. I do feel that my sudden drive to gain control over and harmonize my home is a manifestation of what's going on in my spiritual life.
Powerful stuff continues to happen with my shamanic studies -- but it's still experiences I don't feel entirely comfortable writing about even on a Friends-only setting. What I'm experiencing would strain my own credulity if my best friend was talking about it. But I can feel changes occuring inside me, and in the healing of old relationships, and in increased mental-emotional health, and greater richness of my spiritual devotions. I almost wrote "I am becoming the woman I always wanted to be" -- but it's more like I'm uncovering that woman within myself. I'm been heartened that so far none of my offline friends have reacted with scepticism or negative judgement, but I haven't yet dared speak of this to my parents.
I meet twice a month with Kim, my shamanic teacher, and once a month with Tom, my spiritual director, and it makes for an intense and dynamic path. Between the two of them, almost the full range of my spirituality is nurtured and challenged to deeper growth.