It's not so much a situation of "When I. . . ." but more of a "Why would I want to. . .?"
I almost never think about going out and hanging out with people as a fun thing to do, unless it's with very close friends. And unless I strike an unexpectedly powerful chord with someone new, I almost never follow up a first meeting to try to build something more. There were lots of very nice people at the memorial service, but I can't say that I felt much in common with any of them. Not enough to motivate me to make the effort to create a relationship.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2009-09-06 12:20 am (UTC)I almost never think about going out and hanging out with people as a fun thing to do, unless it's with very close friends. And unless I strike an unexpectedly powerful chord with someone new, I almost never follow up a first meeting to try to build something more. There were lots of very nice people at the memorial service, but I can't say that I felt much in common with any of them. Not enough to motivate me to make the effort to create a relationship.