qos: (Emma in Armor)
qos ([personal profile] qos) wrote2005-12-02 07:28 am

Music Transitions

Today I am removing the song "I Get Weak" by Belinda Carlisle from my iPod.

I don't need any songs reinforcing my tendency to lose myself, to diminsh, when I am in a romantic relationship.

I don't want my daughter hearing lyrics that connect love with becoming weak, in losing her strength in the face of romantic/sexual attraction to a male.

Swooning is a lovely feeling. I hope I feel it again. I hope my daughter experiences it some day.

But these lyrics romanticize something I don't find romantic anymore.

[identity profile] bookchick.livejournal.com 2005-12-02 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Very cool. Swoon does not have to equal weak.