qos: (Emma in Armor)
qos ([personal profile] qos) wrote2005-12-02 07:28 am

Music Transitions

Today I am removing the song "I Get Weak" by Belinda Carlisle from my iPod.

I don't need any songs reinforcing my tendency to lose myself, to diminsh, when I am in a romantic relationship.

I don't want my daughter hearing lyrics that connect love with becoming weak, in losing her strength in the face of romantic/sexual attraction to a male.

Swooning is a lovely feeling. I hope I feel it again. I hope my daughter experiences it some day.

But these lyrics romanticize something I don't find romantic anymore.
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[identity profile] wlotus.livejournal.com 2005-12-02 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I am very lyrics-conscious and cannot listen to songs whose lyrics espouse ideals I do not find appealing, either. Suddenly comprehending the lyrics has ruined many a great-sounding song for me.

[identity profile] parisgarters.livejournal.com 2005-12-02 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Good for you!

[identity profile] bookchick.livejournal.com 2005-12-02 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Very cool. Swoon does not have to equal weak.